University of Memphis Alternative Spring Break 2014: The Last Service

Saturday, March 15, 2014

The Last Service

To conclude the last leg of our ASB tour, we visited seniors who decided that congregating with each other is better than being alone. As members of the Faulkner County Senior Wellness and Activity Center, these people, who are sixty and older engage in social activities such as exercising, bingo, and sporting games to name a few. A sporting game we got to watch and cheer on was Bean bag Baseball which consisted on the Shakers and the Blazers competing on who would acquire the most bases. As we cheered on these teams, I could not help but feel the warmth that radiated from the atmosphere. In addition, there was no doubt that they appreciated us being there as we not only watched but enjoyed the game being played.
Following the game, a representative of that particular district spoke to the seniors on hunger in the state. He elaborated by stating that Arkansas was number one in the country for elderly hunger. I was also shocked when he revealed that one in five persons in the state went to bed hungry. Subsequently, I was reassured that the seniors in that center were not part of that statistic because a hearty lunch is served to them everyday. As lunch was enjoyed, I conversed with four lovely ladies who gave me life advice in blunt fashion only older people can efficiently execute. They fussed over my picky eating like I was one of their grandchildren. Unfortunately when it was time to depart, it felt bitter sweet. I knew I would never forget these people and their courage to continue to still live life.

After our interactions with the seniors, our group ventured to the new place they will be meeting in. Since the seniors would not be in the new location until July of this year, we were expected to clean and help with simple renovations. With that in mind, I was ecstatic that they would be meeting in a bigger and nicer facility.
So to sum it up, meeting those senior citizens taught me that life will inevitably age us, but our hearts will remain as young as we allow it.

Mimi Ijeoma Duru

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The most impactful thing about ASB Destination was...

...helping; being of service
...(working with the) Lighthouse; that's the next generation
...an abundance of knowledge that I can take back home and share with others
...renewed motivation
...the selfless hearts of those on this trip and the appreciation showed by those we served
...helping the people of Greenville (housing)
...the group
...each project had a different dynamic that impacted me; the trip as a whole
...preparing learning tools for the kids
...packaging food
...each project offered educational components and I learned something at each
...kids
...Heifer Ranch--it only takes one step to get a domino effect going
...learning to appreciate cultural differences and learning to value differences more
...Heifer--to see how different other countries are
...the Greenville tour
...Little Rock Central High
...that Heifer's focus is on sustainability for future generations
...being with the kids; I could see myself in them and I never had anyone come work with me
...the video at Heifer Ranch

Today I Learned (Destination)...

...there are still good people in the world

...Greenville is really small, poverty stricken

...Greenville is where they make Uncle Ben's rice

...I have much to be grateful for

...to remain positive in every situation

...I can put the knowledge my dad passed to me to good use and teach others

...I have more patience than I thought

...what a deep socket is

...a bank in Greenville will sell foreclosed homes to the Greater Greenville Housing & Revitalization Association for $1.00

...we don't have to finish a task to help

...it's ok to get dirty for a good cause

...that there was a severe flood in Greenville in 1927

...a lot of people are willing to help the kids

...you can use lemon juice to clean a rabbit's fur

...you surround yourself with people and never really know how much you have in common until you really talk to them

...you have to have patience with kids

...how much extra Volunteers of America does for the kids (extra clothes, transportation to the center, washing machines, day trips)

...you feed off of the energy around you

...to look at the big picture

...Lighthouse learning system is a lot like Montessori schools

...the expectations placed on 5 year olds is much higher than when we were kids

...anything can be a team building experience

...about taking initiative and decision making; sometimes it doesn't matter how you get it done as long as you do it

...how important it is to stay positive around the kids

...you can really impact a kid in a short time

...that some people have never seen blue eyes

...that the direct, firm approach is sometimes best

...listening is just as important as being verbal

...confidence is a huge part of leadership

...even when I am not physically able to do work, I can still contribute

...that housing authority donates space to organizations like the lighthouse

...a lot about St. Patrick

...we have a lot in common

...in order to be a leader you have to be a follower

...to be resourceful

...it's ok to step outside your comfort zone

...getting out of my comfort zone has way more benefits than staying to myself

...military trains- civilians would ride and have to stay on for a day and would pretend to be married to soldiers so they could get off
...the Central High Museum gets 200 people per day
...a new level of gratitude
...to appreciate where I am
...that water buffalo and pigs don't sweat
...Heifer International is not a relief program
...in the 50's, segregated black schools had classes to learn how to be a maid
...about Feed America's network across the country
...about slums around the world
...Heifer animals stay alive and serve as food and income
...the 7 "M"s of what animals contribute to society (meat, milk, money, muscle, motivation, material, manure)
...not to live in the bubble of my perception of the world
...that animals contribute so much to a community
...a greater sense of appreciation for my education
...that people consume camels
...that manure can be used to produce biofuel
...how Heifer International stresses so much more than giving animals
...seniors are really serious about their sports
...seniors have an appreciation for youth, but have not lost theirs
...just because you're a senior citizen, doesn't mean you have to just be in your house
...your quality of life is seriously determined by the community in which you live
...all old people aren't grumpy
...about Meals on Wheels
...how to play Bean Bag Baseball
...a semi truck can get up to 115 mph
...how powerful community really is
...that Meals on Wheels deliveries run entirely on volunteers
...seniors like to have fun too
...that Arkansas is #1 in senior hunger

Today I Learned (Memphis)...

...Knowledge Quest is an after-school program provided to youth in Memphis to promote academic excellence and improve academic performance.
...people care about the youth and give back to the community in order to better someone's life.
...Knowledge Quest vision is to transform lives by expanding minds.
...the establishment and history of Knowledge Quest.
...the history of Shelby Farms.
...Shelby Farms Park once was the Shelby County Penal Farm.
...there are flat screens in the outside tent at Shelby Farms.
...Shelby Farms is the largest urban park in the nation.
...how to plant trees.
...Memphis is a rich city that people should go out and experience.
...homeless people are intelligent.
...there are a lot of churches in Memphis that serve the community.
...there are many different stuff to do in Memphis.
...the history of the Peabody Duck March and A. Schwab's.
...the history of music in Memphis at the Rock 'n' Soul Museum.
...about St. John's Soup Kitchen and what they do for the community.
...the location of the "I Love Memphis" walls
..."Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover" you never know what people are going through.
...about Door of Hope and their residents.
...there are smart people who are homeless.
..."It could be me" and the residents of Door of Hope stories.
...about Promise Development Corporation.
...where Sam Houston State University is located.
...about Sam Houston State University's Alternative Spring Break and how it's organized.
...history of Memphis and the Mississippi River.
...the land that was later developed into the city of Memphis was bought for $1,000.
...a lot can be accomplished when working together.
...about Habitat for Humanity.
...about roofing.
...building a house takes a lot of work and dedication.
...the different aspects of building a house.
...where Jerry's Sno Cones is located.
...more about the story of Anne Frank.

Firsts

-Serving with Knowledge Quest (Memphis)
-Serving with Shelby Farms (Memphis)
-Eating pizza from Memphis Pizza Cafe' (Memphis)
-Eating the buffalo chicken pizza from Memphis Pizza Cafe' (Memphis)
-Decorating door hangers for classrooms at Knowledge Quest (Memphis)
-Doing the NaeNae dance (Memphis)
-Seeing LeMoyne-Owen College (Memphis)
-Serving with St. John's Soup Kitchen (Memphis)
-Seeing the famous Peabody Duck March (Memphis)
-Touring the Rock 'n' Soul Museum (Memphis)
-Going to the top balcony of the Madison Hotel (Memphis)
-Eating at the Trolley Stop Market (Memphis)
-Drinking floats at A. Schwab (Memphis)
-Riding in the trolley (Memphis)
-Touring certain parts of Beale Street (Memphis)
-Serving with Door of Hope (Memphis)
-Seeing all 3 of the "I Love Memphis" walls (Memphis)
-Going to the location of the Levitt Shell (Memphis)
-Walking the Greenline (Memphis)
-Eating at the Bar-B-Que Shop (Memphis)
-Eating Memphis Bar-B-Que (Memphis)
-Going to the Veterans Plaza (Memphis)
-Serving with Promise Development Corporation (Memphis)
-Meeting students from Sam Houston State University (Memphis)
-Eating Gus's Fried Chicken (Memphis)
-Having a picnic alongside the Mississippi River (Memphis)
-Making a public service announcement (Memphis)
-Riding on the Memphis Riverboat (Memphis)
-Eating cheesecake from the Cheesecake Corner (Memphis)
-Going to Brinsons (Memphis)
-Meeting students from Howard University (Memphis)
-Time in Greenville, MS (Destination)
-Trying chicken & waffles chips (Destination)
-Taking a van (Destination)
-Staying overnight with a large group (Destination)
-Pressure washing (Destination)
-Painting parking lines (Destination)
-Seeing police running (training) down the street (Destination)
-Time in Louisiana (Destination)
-Using a leaf blower (Destination)
-Staying in Mississippi (Destination)
-Realizing that Memphis is the same as other cities in a lot of ways (Destination)
-Cementing (Destination)
-Time in Shreveport (Destination)
-Conducting a field day (Destination)
-Seeing an 8-track tape (Destination)
-Trying Mahi Mahi (Destination)

-Being in an environment like Lighthouse (Destination)

-Stepping out of comfort zone to speak to seniors (Destination)

-Being in Little Rock (Destination)

-Not being physically able to do manual labor (Destination)

-Painting a room (Destination)

-Having an educated conversation about my field of work with someone (Destination)
-Time on a farm (Destination)
-Visiting (Little Rock) Central High School (Destination)
-Feeding a camel (Destination)
-Working at a food bank (Destination)
-Bean bag baseball (Destination)
-Frozen custard (Destination)
-Going to a senior center, not a nursing home or assisted living (Destination)
-Climbing a really tall ladder (Destination)
-Riding a lift (Destination)

Saturday, March 15, 2014

The Last Service

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